Why “Bitches” get it their own way

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Have you heard of these books: “Why Men Love Bitches?” or “Why Men Marry Bitches?”? Have you read any of them?

Ok, I’ve read the first and I found it really interesting. It’s a fun and useful guide, comparing the Nice Girl with the Bitch one. The HUGE message, I squeezed out of it?  Be a “Bitch”!

First, what does it even mean? In the book context, means: (ta ta ta) being a strong, independent, intelligent, self-confident woman. It means to stick to your own values and principles, not to trade-off your dignity for mere volatile and superficial attention (affection). It means knowing your self-worth and that you have all the rights in the world to be respected, treasured, loved and cherished. And the very first one who needs to realize this, is, YOU!

Cool. Once you learn this, you would slowly and eventually understand that it actually applies to any other aspect of your life.

Guess the best part! You don’t need to slowly learn it. I am telling you this. I am not ordering, trying to sound bossy or imperative. I learned it at my own expenses.

Remember when a couple of weeks ago I wrote about colleagues trying to screw you over? I had provided for you guys a short guideline. By the way did you actually get to apply it anywhere/anytime? How did it go? Come on, you know that feedback is very much appreciated… huh (sigh).

In case you are wondering, I haven’t got screwed over… yet. They keep trying though, and I keep crafting my “Bitch”skills. Of course, it wouldn’t be that appropriate to include it in the Additional Information of my CV, but it sure does make my life a lot easier. 😉

Any example, when to be a “Bitch” at work? (Again, it’s not the literal meaning of the word here)How many of you have been subject to Public Humiliation in front of your colleagues? Raise your hand! I would, if I weren’t typing right now :p

Are you trying to remember how you felt? Are you also trying to remember how you handled it? Did you chew your liver instead of an appropriate dinner at the time? The me of a few years back, would have probably… the me of now, did not!

I shoved it back to the origin point, where it belongs… I. Don’t. Want. To. Be. Vulgar. But. You. Do. Get. My. Hint. Did it work? Absolutely! \oo/

It’s a myth the: The “Bitch” is immune to such ugly situations, as you need to keep in mind you can be humiliated only if you let someone do that to you. People can try. Yeah, not all of them are bad and twisted, but some are really awful, so load your guns ladies and take action.

If you want to know about my story, all you need to do is aaaaaaaaaaaaask. 😀

xoxo #kristinakoti

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2 thoughts on “Why “Bitches” get it their own way”

  1. I can say I really enjoyed this writing . You actually got the point . Some valuable advices that definitely should be used. Sometimes we have to switch the button and "misbehave" . A wise man in war takes a nap but never sleeps . Greetings Kris

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    1. Thank you so much Malvina for your kind words. They warm my heart, I am glad you liked my post and take the time to drop a line for me 😊😄
      Yes, sometimes we do need to switch, actually quite often, because in the end we will be suffering and feel miserable.

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